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The only wedding book worth buying.

I hate to break it to you all, but…

There is one, however, that isn’t quite so worthless. In fact, it’s not worthless at all. If I were to recommend ONE wedding planning guide, resource, what-have-you, I would tell you to buy this one:

The Wedding Book: The Big Book for Your Big Day by Mindy Weiss and Lisbeth Levine

I didn’t buy this book initially because it didn’t look too exciting– it wasn’t hot pink, it didn’t look very fun, I thought it had a fairly cheesy title, and I just judged it by its cover. After buying about every other book on the planet, including every terrible one offered by The Knot, I decided it was time to look at some reviews. This book consistently was reviewed as being the very best. I put aside my book-judging and went out and bought it.

Let me tell you– it is the ONLY wedding book that I’ve used fairly religiously, and it’s the most comprehensive one I’ve found. Not only is it packed with answers to pretty much any question you might have regarding weddings, it also is fairly style-and-level-of-conservativeness-neutral. There is information and etiquette for different levels of strictness. You don’t have to barf because of a cheesy photo of a bride holding your least favorite flowers. You can get your information without having to wade through pages of crap.

Another thing I like about this book is the layout. I tend to glaze over at pages of solid text. Every page of this book has diagrams, examples, little blurb-boxes without stupid questions, tables– you name it. It quells the ADHD monster inside of me, holds my attention, and, well, I pretty much love this sucker.

So yes, if you’re in need of a great wedding book and one whose advice I’d trust implicitly, go buy this book. It is $13.57 on Amazon. Win.

Look forward to next time, where I’ll let you in on which book launched 1,000 panic attacks.

Any other lovers of this book out there? Who else has had problems finding a wedding book that was worth four hoots?

Time needs to slow the hell down.

Time is running away.

It seems like before the t minus 1 year mark, we had forever to worry about the wedding, and it was going to be a breeze. Time ticked by slowly, I collected ideas. I knew what I wanted. I was on top of things.

Now, we’re just under 11 months until the wedding, and the time is flying. Flying. All of these wedding books also need to throw in a clause warning against June weddings. Well, not really against June weddings, but, if you’re going to have a June wedding, you better damn well start booking important vendors before the 1 year mark. Even then might be too late.

Yesterday was Major Wedding Crisis 1. I decided to number it, because, let’s be honest, I don’t have the best luck. If I don’t pretend like there will be more, then there will be a whole helluvalot more. Yes, helluvalot is a word today.

Anyway, yesterday, the photographer that we’d essentially decided on got booked out from under us. We had a meeting scheduled for this Sunday, but I didn’t know that she had other inquiries for our wedding date. She was very sweet though, and called some other photographers for me and gave recommendations. We then found what I think is the holy grail of photographers, and we have a meeting with him on Saturday. He promised not to book out our date before we met, either.:)

So, lesson learned. Find out what vendors are the most important to you, and then, especially if it is a JUNE wedding, book that shit ASAP.