Give me a head with hair, long beautiful hair…

Gimme head with hair
Long beautiful hair
Shining, gleaming,
Streaming, flaxen, waxen

Give me down to there hair
Shoulder length or longer
Here baby, there mama
Everywhere daddy daddy

Hair, hair, hair, hair, hair, hair, hair
Flow it, show it
Long as God can grow it
My hair

I am in the midst of the long and arduous process of growing out my hair. You see, I used to have wonderful, long, fabulous hair. Then my dumb ass went and, well, screwed things up. Let us look at the evolution of my hair, including some bad hair decisions.

hairevolution

First picture, 2004 with Kristen, and see? Wonderful, long, my natural hair color. Before I started doing stuff to it. Then, Spring ’05, I decided to go for the heavy bang and “sparkle.” Sparkle was just mini mini mini highlights, but it opened up a whole can o’ worms. That can of worms turned into… my quasi-neapolitan-colored hair. Is it orange? Brown? Red? Blonde? No idea.

After that, there was a period where I dyed my hair black about 4 times. It looked sort-of ridiculous on me, even though my natural color is pretty close to black. (I tend to hide from cameras, so I can’t find any pictures of the black hairs).

Then, after the black faded, in Fall 2007, I cut all of my hair off. It was halfway down my back by that point, fried from going back and forth from black to other stuff, and needed to be cut off. Plus, e’erybody was doing it. For a year, I continued to make the bob shorter and shorter and shorter. Then, we bought my engagement ring, and it hit me.

Crap, I have to grow my hair out now. I want long hair for our wedding.

The last photo is where my hair is now. Natural color finally back. I rarely use heat on it, and have been trying to be as gentle as possible to it so that it’ll be great-tabulous by the time June rolls around!

I’m sure so many of the brides out there are going through the same exact thing. Hair-growin’-out is a pretty common thing for wedding land. Anybody else growing their hair out after some pretty stupid hair decisions? Did you get hit by the bob craze of ’07?

Next up: Wedding hair inspiration! Let’s see how I’ll try to put my (hopefully) long hairs to use!

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EmNovember 28, 2009 - 8:13 pm

Freakin’ hair, man. I normally have a “bob” (I guess that’s what you’d call it) because my curly hair looks best short. I’ve been growing it for over a year now and it suuucks. It’s a tiny bit past my shoulders, which should do for the wedding. But ugh, this is killing me. I’m excited to see your inspiration photos! Also, why the heck do you hide from the camera? You’re gorgeous!!

mismikadoNovember 28, 2009 - 8:30 pm

Great post! You totally inspired me to share my hair project with the world :)
http://mismikadodowntheaisle.wordpress.com/2009/11/28/its-a-hair-evolution/

LaurenNovember 28, 2009 - 9:37 pm

Em- You’re sweet. I hide because I’m terrified of having my picture taken. Perfectionist to the max, and I’m super self-conscious. (How can someone as loud and obnoxious as I am be self-conscious? Who knows!)

MM- Awesome! I love your montage.

CourtneyNovember 28, 2009 - 11:21 pm

I agree with Em! You ARE gorgeous!!!

shannaNovember 28, 2009 - 11:38 pm

a) you’re hot. ’nuff said!

b) i have a bob now and it’s the longest hair i’ve had in years…hell, i shaved my head three years ago for no real reason at all! but i, too, am having “oh shit i need to grow my hair out!” feelings now that i’m planning a wedding. if i can find some non-stripper like extensions i’m totally not above going that route if i have to, but only for “filler”. if that makes any sense? i would most likely only use extensions to add fullness and a tiny bit of length needed to achieve a particular style.

A. MarigoldNovember 30, 2009 - 12:12 am

Who knew you were so gorgeous!

I got the ‘bob in 2007, too. I am SO MAD at myself, because I have the slowest-growing hair in the world. :(

bluebutterfly10November 30, 2009 - 12:43 pm

Ugghhh!! I feel your pain so much!! I had such long lovely hair…then last November wanted a change and went snip, snip, snip and had 8″ of hair chopped off! It wasn’t too crazy because about 3 years prior I did the same thing and had 12 inches chopped. I loved my new short look, but soon after the engagement I wished I hadn’t had it cut. Especially since a month prior I decided to take off even more hair….I am not playing the waiting game and hoping my hair will grow as fast as it used to!

bluebutterfly10November 30, 2009 - 12:44 pm

oops I meant I am now playing the waiting game!

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